We’ve been robbed.

Last week Andrea & I discovered that we had been robbed.

Being robbed is not a good feeling.
Being robbed makes you feel vulnerable & helpless.
Being robbed makes you thankful for the important things in life.

Luckily, I knew the robber.  Every time I saw the robber I just become more and more frustrated.   I found myself devising a plan to get even.  A plan that would make me feel better.  Next thing I knew, I had the robber in the back of my Ford Expedition and I was driving down the street.  I pulled into our church parking lot and decided this was where I would dump the robber.  (So, maybe my plan wasn’t the best)  I decided that the church was the best place for my robber.  Maybe they could make something good out of it.  I believe they will.

 

The robber… was our TV.  We were robbed out of countless hours of our lives.

 

We easily watched TV for an average of 3 hours per day.  (some nights was as little as an hour, but some weekends would literally be all day) This would put us at around 90 hours per month.  Neilsen says the average family watches over 151 hours of television per month.

At just 3 hours per day this totals to 45 DAYS of TV watching per year! 1080 hours!  This just infuriates me.  I had been gladly giving almost 20% of my waking hours to my television yet I was quick to feel bad for myself because I was so “busy”.

Like I stated in a previous post, God has really been working in our lives and is giving us a new perspective on our “things”.  I don’t want to be a person that is controlled by their belongings (or need to acquire more belongings).  Instead, I want to be driven towards God’s purpose for my life.  I could no longer look at that TV without thinking how much of my life was stolen from me.

The results were immediate.  This last week was so peaceful in our home.  We rearranged our living room to include a recliner we recently found at Goodwill and our TV stand has become a nice table showcasing some pictures & photobooks from Romania.

We’ve got big plans for our reclaimed time.  We will be reading a lot more, fundraising for Romania and preparing for the big move.

By no means, do I think this step is for everyone.  I don’t want to come off as the “holier than thou” type of person.  However, I do want to challenge you to step back and analyze just how much time your TV is robbing from you and your family.  It might be worth unplugging it for a week just to see how big of an impact it makes.  If just the thought of unplugging it makes you hyperventilate… you might have a problem.

I’ll keep you posted on our journey!

 

Vision for Romania

I wanted to quickly share the symbolic picture that God has given Andrea & I for the Teen Challenge outreach program…

There is a tree in the center of the city. There are 4 streams going out in different directions offering people life & healing. People will be drawn to the tree to rest, but they will stay because they find new life in Christ. We will then help prepare people for that new life in Christ.

I’m excited to see what God has for us in Romania!

 

Personal Retreat

This week was very special for me. For at least 4 years now, I’ve wanted to take a personal retreat and simply seek God. I’m not entirely sure why I didn’t as I’ve had the time to do it. I guess, I simply didn’t make it happen.

Well, the desire had been getting much stronger over the last few months. At church this past Sunday, I felt like God was telling me that if I go… He’ll meet me there. With an offer like that – I wasn’t going to miss the opportunity. I booked a room at a small catholic retreat center on the east side of Indianapolis. I am so thankful for such a supportive wife, Andrea knew it was going to be a great experience for me.

So, on Tuesday morning (after a free breakfast at our local Chik-fil-a) I headed to the other side of town. I checked into my small but cozy room and simply opened my Bible and asked God to speak to me. The next 48 hours were filled with reading God’s word, a few chosen books, prayer, worship, rest, starbucks coffee, walking a prayer labyrinth, praying the stations of the cross, & some amazing chinese food.

I had a lot of personal revelations and truly felt like I had been in the presence of God. I have never felt such a close & personal connection with God. I was able to get specific directions on what exactly our ministry in Romania would look like. God put a few people on my heart and gave me words to share with them. I read a life-changing book that will drastically alter the course of my marriage. To summarize the trip… I left that Indianapolis retreat center a changed man!

I’m excited to share more of this journey with you all. Amen.

I just can’t get enough

I’ve just been in a reading mood lately.  I have purposely spent at least a few hours each day this past week reading.  I guessing it’s the fact that I’ve been fortunate enough to borrow my mom’s new kindle! (all under the guise of “setting it up”)

In the short week that I’ve had it in my possession… I’ve fallen in love with the device.  It is honestly a much better reading experience that my iPad.  I like the fact that it’s quite a bit lighter, it feels like I’m actually reading a book, & there are no distractions like email.  I’m not going to be getting rid of my iPad anytime soon, but I definitely understand the draw to a Kindle.

I wanted to share the books that I’ve read recently…


I’ve just read the 1st of the 2 books included in this one. It’s a fictional book that was very touching. It’s totally not my normal reading material. It’s actually one of the first fiction books I’ve read in YEARS! It definitely kept me engaged.


I’d like to thank Maria Larison (sheltering wings blog) for sharing this book with me. I just finished it yesterday and it was honestly life changing. This is one of the must read books!


I finished this book on Friday and it will forever shape the way in which I do ministry. As Andrea & I begin fundraising to move to Romania… this book will be a guide for any ministry we do. I desire to being restoration to people’s lives… not just meet physical needs.


This is a classic Seth Godin book. It was a quick & easy read. The message of the book is to GET UP and DO SOMETHING. It’s my type of book.


This one I finished reading on our trip to Romania, but I haven’t got around to sharing it on the blog. This was one of only 2 John Maxwell books that I’ve read in their entirety. Let’s just say, I’m not a lifelong fan. I’ve already bought a few more and will be reading them soon. He’s the MAN!

I would recommend any of these books. They were all very enjoyable. If you’re going to read just one of these… It’s got to be

Garage Door Accident!

Today was not one of the best days of my life…

I put up the garage door and hopped in my car.  Put the car in reverse and BAM!  Apparently my lovely garage door opener decided not to put the garage door all the way up.  So, I had a huge warp in the garage door and the door was entirely off the track.

Luckily google hooked me with the best garage door repair in Indianapolis!  1st Choice Doors is a great local Indianapolis garage door company.  I was thinking that I would need a whole new door or at least a new track for the door.  I didn’t need either… Marc had it back up and running in less than 10 minutes flat!

So, that mistake cost me $50…. WAY better than the $500+ I was estimating for a new door.  Thank God! (+ Marc!)

We’re Back from Romania

We’re back in Indianapolis.  We arrived home around 7pm on Thursday evening to our lovely home on Lookout Ln.  The dichotomy of spending time in Bucharest to living in suburban Indianapolis is a little overwhelming.  We have so many conveniences and luxuries that were hard to come-by during our time in Romania.  I think the best word to describe the difference is simply “comfort”.  We live such a comfortable life here.  Comfort in and of itself is not a bad thing.  But, I don’t think that we as christians are called to live a comfortable life.  Our lives should be more adventerous. I’m not saying that everyone needs to sell their belongings and move overseas, but instead simply living out our faith by leaving our “comfort zones” each and every day. Maybe that means walking across the room and offering to pray for someone or simply picking up the phone and having the difficult conversation that you’re been avoiding for years.  Maybe that means forgiving that person that hurt you so badly.  I don’t know what exactly waits outside your confort zone but I would suggest you go for it.

Our time in Romania was life-changing.  I know that we will look back on this 3 week trip and see it as a pivotal point in our lives.  Since the age of 17 at a campgrounds in Romania I have known that one day I would live there.  God has called me to International ministry.  I’m not a big fan of flying or the difficulties that living abroad brings, but I am a big fan of Romania.  There is something about that country that makes it feel like home.  I don’t fully understand the culture or even the language for that matter but I do know that God has given me a passion for the people of Romania.  I desire to see God pour out his spirit on Romania.

We left on March 24th praying that God would not only confirm our calling to move to Romania but that He would show us exactly what He had for us to do there.  Doing our part, we had set-up up a number of meetings with missionaries & ministries to see    the variety of opportunities before us.  On Sundays we attended the International Church in Bucharest.  Pastor Cristi spoke on “Following the Will of God” on the 1st Sunday we were there.  After the service he spoke a word into our lives that will forever impact the ministry we do.  He said, “It’s not so important what you do, but instead what God is doing inside of you”.  This word was confirmed when we came home that afternoon to an email from my mom that basically said the same thing.
Once we stopped desperately searching for the WHAT – God began showing us His heart.

During our last week in Bucharest we were able to hit the streets with the Outreach Team @ Teen Challenge.  I was prepared to see desperate people living on the streets of Bucharest, but this afternoon was different.  As a teenager I saw plenty of people living on the streets, many of whom were children younger than myself.  (This was the result of years of communism under the dictator Ceausescu.)  That afternoon was life changing for both Andrea & I because we knew without a doubt that this was what God was calling us to do.

Teen Challenge has been wanting to develop a day outreach center for those living on the streets & in the many abandoned homes of Bucharest.  This outreach center will provide a number of services including food, clothing, shower facilities, counseling, childcare & most importantly an opportunity to experience God’s love.  We want to be a part of that.

All the details aren’t worked out, but that will come in God’s timing.  We’re called to be obedient.  In the coming weeks we will begin fundraising for our return to Romania.  Leaving was not easy, but we left with a strong desire to return.  I know that God will provide the finances for that to happen.

Chip-in: Send a Kid

Before we left town for this 3 week trip to Romania we had quite a few friends ask if there was anything that they could do to help us out on this trip. Luckily, we were able to keep costs low by using airline miles for the tickets & we are staying at a pretty cheap apartment (more on that later as last night was our 1st night at the apartment and we’ve already been to ikea to load up on new towels, bed sheet, & pillows!!!).

Well, today in church it hit me that maybe all of you could still help in a big way…. The International Church in Bucharest is a great local church that is made up of mostly Romanian families. It’s also extremely friendly for English speakers with an all English
service & interpreters via headphones.

Anyways, my good friend Anca & her husband lead the youth ministry at the church and they were fundraising this morning by selling some amazing pastries. The youth group is fundraising to go to a camp called Peniel. You can find out more about Peniel by going to http://www.peniel.ro/

I think this upcoming conference is a great opportunity for these students because personally, I went to Peniel camp back in 2002 and it changed my life! This camp was where God spoke into my heart and called me into international ministry. So, when i heard these students were trying to fundraise to go to Peniel… I knew I needed to help.

Here are the details….

The conference is in less than 2 weeks.
There are 8 students that want to go.
The total cost is over $100/student. (that’s a lot of pastries)
Unfortunately most of the cost is for the train tickets because the conference is not in the capital this year, but it’s in Oradea, RO.
The conference alone is just $10 but with travel, accommodations, food, etc. They need at least $100 per kid.

So, Andrea & I are committing $100 to send a kid to Peniel. We would like to give you all the opportunity to be part of sending these 8 kids.

If you are interested, just leave a comment below or shoot me a message on Facebook and let me know how much you plan to give. I will then total it up and let them know. If you’re able to give please let me know no later than Wednesday morning. (Any amount is appreciated!!!)

Romania Trip Part V

We just finished breakfast at Hotel Korona in Sighisoara. This week has been a lot of fun. We left Monday morning for Brasov then hopped back on the train Wednesday morning headed for Cluj. Cluj is a big university town in Romania. We really enjoyed our 2 days in Cluj. We were able to meet up with the author of “The Complete Insiders Guide To Romania”. Sam took us to an amazing little shop for dessert & coffee. Sam has lived in Romania for about 10 years, so he had a lot of insight to share. It was encouraging to see another American over here living the simple life and just enjoying the culture Romania has to offer.

We had a full day on Thursday. We met Sam at 8am to go to the local market. The market was full of fresh fruits, vegetables, meats, & breads. We walked out with a nectarine, grapes, & a few bananas. Sam in turn walked out with a brick of goat cheese & green onions. (oh, the difference 10 years in romania makes!). Sam then took us for a little walking tour of some of the more historic parts of Cluj. There is a rich Hungarian history in Cluj so we saw a few historic churches, statues, & a birthplace of a Hungarian king. My personal favorite was going inside one of the churches. It is a humbling experience to walk inside some of these magnificent buildings. You’ll see some of the pictures below from inside the church.

Next we took a bus over to the new mall in Cluj. (You weren’t thinking I would miss visiting the Starbucks in Cluj now were you?) There is something unique about the Starbucks experience. Personally, I appreciate that they keep pretty much EVERYTHING the same as in the states… down to the furniture. It always brings me a little bit of home.

Around 12 noon, Rufus Whynot and his wife Dee picked us up from the mall and took us out to their home about 30 minutes outside of the city to the north. They have a beautiful home on an even better plot of land! The view was absolutely amazing. Looking out their front porch you see a few large hills with a flock of sheep moving back & forth. We had a very nice afternoon just sitting on their front porch talking about doing ministry in Romania. Rufus shared a lot of wisdom about his philosophy of ministry. One of the things I liked best was simply seeing how much he has poured into the lives of his team. They share their property with 2 other Romanian families who are on their staff. It is hard to come up with the words to describe it… But their ministry just felt AUTHENTIC.

Around dinner time we left for a youth service at a local gypsy camp that Rufus’s team ministers at. It was honestly one of the most enlightening experiences I have had in Romania. Its important to understand that the gypsy community is looked down upon by pretty much everyone including the Romanian Christian community. (I remember talking to a gypsy in Bucharest as a teenager and one of my Romanian Christian friends just couldn’t understand why I would be wasting my time speaking with a gypsy kid.) Basically, they are the outcasts of the society here. When I read the Bible… That’s who we as Christians are called to minister to. God’s heart is for the outcasts.

So, this gypsy community has set up a camp/small community at the city garbage dump. There are hundreds of people living right at the entrance of city dump. People spend their time picking through the trash to find things that could be reused or sold. Some businesses have even set up a place to buy these items directly from the gypsies as they bring it back out of the trash. It’s not an easy sight to see as there were so many kids running around the camp. Those kids have very few options for their lives. Some don’t even get any education as their families need them to work scouring the dump all day. Rufus gave us permission to take a few pictures, so you’ll see those below.

Their team has set-up a nice building right in the community for church services, medical services, & other uses. Thursday evening is their family services. They asked me to share with the youth service which consisted of 9 girls ages 10-15. The girls were precious. It was really cool to hear one of the girls recite the entire 23rd psalm from memory. She won a huge power ranger coloring kit which of course she was quite proud of. I shared a little bit about why we come to romania, that we have an important message to share about how much Jesus loves us and wants to change our lives. 7 of the girls raised their hand to accept Christ that night. My heart hurts because I know those girls were going back to their homes and back to a life that looks hopeless. I pray that God will watch over them and protect them. It was during this meeting that I realized just how important discipleship is. Those girls all raised their hands & said “the prayer” but I know that this is just the beginning. I am thankful that the team is there to be with those girls even if it is just a few times a week.

Thursday morning we hopped back on the train headed back towards Bucharest. We decided to split up the trip by staying the night in Sighisoara. This town is pristine… It’s liked we stepped back into medieval times (if medieval times had a ton of souvenir shops). There is not a whole lot to see, but it’s well worth the visit. I guess other have a medieval festival here once a year where people get all dressed up… Now that would be pretty wild to see.

We jump back on the train around 2:45pm this afternoon for a close to 7 hour ride back to Bucharest. UGH! Thankfully, that’s where we will spend the rest of our time here in Romania… so no more traveling.

With just over 1 week into our 3 week trip Andrea & I KNOW in our hearts that this is where God has called us – that has only been strengthened. The exact ministry/opportunity He has for us, we don’t know yet. But honestly, I don’t think He is nearly as concerned about what we do, but where our hearts are. I am continually seeking more of Him. Afterall, THAT is what it’s all about.

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Romania Trip Part IV

It’s a rainy day in Brasov, Romania. We are currently in a smoky little cafe around the corner from our hotel (Hotel Gott).

When I think of relaxation I have often thought of the square in Brasov. There is just something special about this historic town. The brick pedestrian pathways & centuries-old buildings are just enough to make you feel like you’ve walked back in time. Andrea & I have just been trying to take it all in. The typical tourist stops like Bran Castle are of little interest to us… There is always next time. However, we are interested in soaking up the peaceful atmosphere.

While sitting on the large square yesterday we were able to get in some amazing people watching. It’s always interesting to see people react to the big man. One experience stands out… this little old couple (70s/80s) walked past us and had to stop and turn around to get in another 5 seconds of complete staring. I simply looked up & gave them a big smile.

There were 4 kids that I found myself staring at… 2 little boys & 2 little girls – all around the age of 8 or 9. They were rummaging through the trash cans in search of something,one pulled out a small metal wire. The 2 girls were going around approaching mothers with small children and asking for some money. Although I have seen this kind of activity many of times on the streets of Bucharest… this one stands out. I know that Children are close to God’s heart. It’s difficult to see children simply struggling to survive. This is a stress that they shouldn’t have to face at such a young age. The issue is very complex and not a quick fix. I do know that my spirit breaks with compassion for these kids.

I have known that this trip to Romania would be the beginning of something big in our life. Thus far, it’s not letting us down. God is doing something big in our hearts, just what exactly that is we’re not sure yet. I do know that I absolutely love this country. I feel at home. My heart feels at home. All is good.

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Romania Trip Part III

It’s been a busy weekend for us. We have now been in Bucharest for just over 3 days. We’ve already been to 2 church services, visited the Teen Challenge Center, been to 3 giant malls, toured the Palace of the People, eaten a meal fit for a king, & taken the metro/walked to Piata Unirii, Universitatii, Romana & Aviatori. The adventure is just beginning.

Tomorrow morning we leave or a 6 day venture into other parts of Romania. We are taking a train to Brasov for 2 days, Cluj for 2 days, & Sighisoara for 1 day. This is pretty wild because Andrea has never been on a train. We’re believing for no motion sickness. Taking a train through Romania is beautiful. The countryside is absolutely amazing. (it’s a tad bit different than flat Indiana)

It’s also a big adventure because we are traveling alone… with no one to interpret. We will be meeting a missionary in Cluj to see his ministry, but other than that we’re on our own. While this is a stretch I’m also excited for it. We’ve got our little Romanian phrase book all ready to go!

Today as we toured the Palace of the People I was reminded of the resiliency of the Romanian people. While the people of the country were rationed & starved… this palace of luxury was built. It’s amazing to see how these people have triumphed over the former communist regime.

I’ll keep you updated as we travel this week. I am not sure about getting on the Internet, so it might be a while till my next post.

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